Flirting is very individual. What is flirting to me may not be flirting for the next person. But the intention is the same, to hype up interest; to bring each other to the peak of enjoyment. Now, it is up to you to see and check out what works.

One way to keep your marriage fresh is to put flirting back into it. When was the last time you ever flirted with your spouse? Just because you are married doesn't mean you can't flirt anymore with your partner. In this article I intend to give you some practical tips in flirting with your spouse. . Hopefully this article will give you some ideas that you can use to keep your relationship fresh.

There is something you could do for your husband, isn’t it? If you really choose to, you know you could just take some time to SET ASIDE everything you want, SET ASIDE everything you’re unhappy about, SET ASIDE all judgment and criticism, SET ASIDE everything except an unvarnished, pure interaction of acceptance, appreciation, and genuine interest.

And, don’t be fooled – you’re not giving up anything nor are you losing out on anything. Here is the thing, while this is certainly about him, IT’S MORE ABOUT YOU! Wives, this is self-interest and self-preservation and the more you show the right kind of interest in your Big baby, the more of the right kind of interest he’ll show in you.

Obviously, your hubby doesn’t want to feel like a demeaned, belittled, invaluable, throw-away possession. Nor does he want to feel like he is obsessively controlled and dictated to but, he wants to feel like a prized, valuable, meaningful, sought-after bloke – one who is CLAIMED by his wife! He wants his Wife to think of him as her chosen one, her first-pick, her one and only lover boy.

From your own life-experiences, you no doubt realize that far too many men DO NOT generate this feeling in their wife. In fact, they generate quite the opposite… they look at other women, spend time with them, by interacting with them, the little things they do, while they leave their wife feeling like she’s in a massive competition, a massive struggle to even stay on her husband’s radar screen.

Obviously, that’s not what you want. So, ask yourself, “How can I give my Big Boy this feeling of “meaningful belonging” that he so strongly craves?”

Take pains to look sexy - even when you are just at home, dress well. If you look good in short shorts tiny tank tops, wear them! And even when you are fully dressed, you can still be sexy. Show a bit of cleavage, or put your hair up - just look different each time.

Set the mood - if you’ve got candles lit and sexy music playing, chances are he will get the message in an instant. Aside from these, you’ll need to prepare yourself too. Rest at least an hour before he comes home, so you don’t look too tired.

Put notes in his drawer- write I miss you honey to show your hubby that you’re thinking of him even when he’s not around.

Hug him when he least expect it - he could be working at the computer or relaxing in front of the TV there’s no reason why you shouldn’t sneak up from behind and give him a hug.

Hold hands - this may seem trite, but works especially when you’re in public. Touching and caressing could get your hubby all excited and we bet he’ll be in a mad rush to get both of you home.

Have a stimulating conversation - we mean the intellectual kind. Share your thoughts with him and vice versa. You never know what it can lead to…

Touching is another way of flirting. Rubbing your spouses back or squeezing their hand. The human Touching is another way of flirting. Rubbing your spouses back or squeezing their hand. The human touch can add so much excitement and freshness to your relationship.

When was the last time you really hugged or held each other close? Intimacy doesn't always have to have sex involved to be close and intimate with each other. Many times a touch will say so much that words can not express.

The wink. When was the last time you winked at your spouse? You could be sitting across the dinner table and send a wink and smile their way. Wives try winking at your husband when you have his attention. If you didn't have his full attention you will now. Sometime take the kids to grandmas for the night and you both go out and meet each other like you first met.

There are so many things you can do to flirt with each other. Take some time out to do some UNUSUAL EXPLOIT to your love affair.